What words? Can you tell me?

什么话？你能告诉我吗？

Honey, I don’t know what to tell you. Of course Tony is a young child. But do not underestimate his ability to learn and reason.

亲爱的，我不知道该怎么跟你说。当然托尼还是个小孩子。但不要小看他学习、讲道理的能力。

I suggest you treat him with patience, affection, and respect. If he needs to do something, like go to bed, or be washed, etc., please guide or help him to get it done, but lead him with gentleness.

我建议你多点耐心，爱他，尊重他。如果他需要上床睡觉、或者被清洗之类的，请指引或者帮助他完成，但是一定要温柔。

Motivate Tony to cooperate by rewarding his good behavior. Do not emphasize punishment for bad moods, etc. Do not threaten him with punishment if he resists the actions you desire.

要和托尼合作好，你就要奖励他给他积极性。不要因为坏脾气就强调要惩罚他。不要因为他不按照你的做就威胁要惩罚他。