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For some couples, it can be weeks or months before they put any kind of label on it. Maybe you’re in a situation where things started out casual and your feelings crept up on you. Or that window where you clarify that things are now serious somehow came and went, and things just feel awkward. Or maybe you’re just on the cusp and neither one of you wants to blow up the status quo so you both just play it cool.
对于一些CP（情侣）来说，给一段感情贴上标签可能需要几周或几个月。也许你正处于这种情境：刚开始事情发展的很随意，但你对他/她的感觉却越来越强烈了。又或是你极力证明现在变得认真的那层窗户纸被捅破了，一下子就尴尬起来。又或是你正处于风口浪尖，你们俩谁都不想打破现状，所以你们都假装正常。
1. You’ve met his friends.
1. 你见过了他的朋友。
Specifically, he made a point to *bring you along* to meet his friends. This is very different from him messaging you at 1 AM to swing by a party and pick him up, so you meet his friends fleetingly. But if he actually makes plans with you to go out with his friends, and it all feels like a big deal, he’s at least a little into you.
具体来说，他特别重视带你见他的哥们儿。这与他凌晨一点给你发短信，让你去派对接他是不一样的，因为那种情况下你只是急匆匆的和他们打了个照面。但如果他真的计划约你去见他的朋友，而且还特别正式的话，那他至少是有点喜欢你的。
2. He’s bringing you around to “couple’s events.”
2. 他会带你出席“情侣活动。”
Meeting his friends is one thing. But if you’re unsure of how he views you, and you go out to a dinner that’s all couples… you’ve pretty much got your answer. No guy who wants to keep things casual is going to take you out with a bunch of other couples.
见他的哥儿们是一回事。但如果你不确定他对你的想法，而且你们出席的晚宴又都是情侣……那你心里应该已经有答案了。如果只想玩玩儿，男生们是不会带你出席情侣活动的。
3. You slept over and didn’t have sex.
3. 你们睡过了，但没有发生关系。
When you can spend the night with a new-ish hook up and not feel obligated to actually hook up, it's a good sign. The more this happens, the more likely it is you can have a “talk” without it being cringy. Any guy who wanted to set boundaries with a casual fling wouldn’t have even let this happen once.
当你和一个刚刚勾搭上的男生共度了一夜，并且没有那种必须要发生关系的感觉时，这可是一个好迹象。这种事情发生的越多，你们就越有可能真心交流，丝毫不用顾虑。那些划清界限只想要一夜情的男生，是不会让这种事情发生的，一次都不会。
4. He makes plans around you.
4. 他会以你为中心制定计划。
You’re probably not at the point where he’s going to make major career changes with you, but he’s thinking of you beyond the next few weekends, that’s a sign. Whether it means you made casual plans to go see a movie in three weeks, or he’s taking you as his plus one to a wedding in a month, that’s something.
也许他还没有准备和你一起进行重大的职业生涯变化，但接下来的几周他的计划都与你有关，这就是一个迹象。不管你们俩是约好在这三周内看场电影，还是在一个月内他带你去参加婚礼，这都意味着猫腻。
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