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Falling in love is an amazing feeling, but you never want to force it. If you're dating someone who makes you question your relationship status constantly, it's time to ask yourself some questions. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and only you. Here's the signs that your guy might not be serious about you.
坠入爱河是一种绝妙的体验，但这是不能强求的。如果你现在正在和某人约会，但却总会自问自己的情感状况，那么是时候问你自己一些问题了。你值得拥有想和你在一起而且只想和你在一起的另一半。以下的迹象表明你现在的男朋友并没有那么喜欢你。
1.He's always busy.
他总是很忙
1.He should want to spend lots of his free time with you. And if he's busy, he should make time for you.
在他空闲的时候，他应该想和你待在一起。如果他忙的话，他也应该抽出时间陪你。
2. He doesn't introduce you to his friends or family.
2.他没有把你介绍给他的朋友或家人
If he is serious, he should want to show you off to the people closest to him
如果他是认真的话，他会想要向亲近的人炫耀你的。
3. He won't open up to you.
3.他不会对你敞开心扉
If you have tried to ask him about his past and he's hesitant to tell you, he probably has problems letting people in.
如果你试图问过他的过去，而他却犹豫不决，那么他可能难以让别人进入到他的内心。
4. You always plan the dates.
4.计划约会的人总是你
He should be putting in just as much effort as you. A relationship is a two-way street.
爱情中他应该与你一样付出精力。感情是条双向道。
5. He texts but never calls.
5.他会给你发短信但从来不打电话
It shows effort when your guy does more than shoot you a quick text. It also shows transparency - he can openly tell you what he's up to with his voice rather than hiding behind written words.
当你男朋友不仅仅会快速给你发短信时，这就表明他花心思了。同时这也表明了他的清白--他能公开的和你语音对话告诉你他在做什么，而不是用一些文字隐藏自己正在做什么。
6. He leaves you out of future plans.
6.他未来的计划中没有你
When he talks about events in the future, he rarely includes you in them. He should be thinking about the future of the both of you as a couple too.
当他谈论到未来的计划时，你鲜少位列其中。他在思考未来时，也应该将你们视作一对夫妻规划到未来当中。
7. He still talks to ex-girlfriends.
7.他仍然和前女友联系
It's a big red flag if he still speaks to former flames on a regular basis. If he's serious about you, those past relationships aren't worth keeping up with anymore.
如果他仍然定期与前女友联系的话，那这就发出了一个大大的危险信号。如果他对你是认真的，那么过去的恋人根本就不值得联系了。
8. He avoids all forms of affection in public.
8.在公众场合，他避免任何亲密举动
Some guys don't like to show a lot of affection in public, and that's OK! But if he won't even put his arm around you or squeeze your hand, he's being too standoffish.
有些人不喜欢在公众面前秀恩爱，这是可以的！但如果他都不搂着你或握紧你的手，那么他就太过冷漠了。
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