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15. 批评的影响尤其会在高敏感的人这里被放大。
Highly sensitive people have reactions to criticism that are more intense than less sensitive people. As a result, they may employ certain tactics to avoid said criticism, including people-pleasing (so that there is no longer anything to criticize), criticizing themselves first, and avoiding the source of the criticism altogether, according to Aron."People can say something negative, [and] a non-HSP [highly sensitive person] can say, 'Whatever,' and it doesn't affect them," Zeff says. "But a HSP would feel it much more deeply."
高敏感的人相比低敏感的人对批评有更强烈的反应。因此，他们会发展特定的策略去避免批评，包括迎合他们（这样就再也没什么可批评的了），先自我批评，同时避免各种批评一起席卷而来，阿隆这样讲道。 “人们可以讲负面的东西，一个低敏感的人可以说，‘随便吧！’而这不会影响他们，” 泽夫讲道。“但是一个高敏感的人会有更深度的感觉。”
