10. You Don’t Get Out Enough

你很宅

Of course, there is also a good chance that not having friends isn’t related to a specific character flaw. Instead, it might just be because you haven’t had the opportunity to meet people whose company you enjoy. If that’s the case, create opportunities to meet other people based on your interests and activities and be willing to take a chance on striking up a conversation with a stranger. It just might turn into a lifelong friendship.

当然，朋友少也可能会归咎于好的因素，而非特别的人格缺陷。也许，那只是因为你没有足够的机会遇见那个志同道合的友人。如果真是这样，那就要制造相遇的机会。并要根据你的喜好，挑选你爱的活动，做足跟一个陌生人侃侃而谈的准备。这种不期而遇兴许就成了地久天长的友谊。