7. Don't do emotional reasoning:
不要太情绪化
This is a belief based on feeling alone without any rational thinking behind it. For example, you don't like such and such but you don't have any logical reason for not liking them.
冲动是魔鬼,这句话的确是是真理。例如,你总是没来由的不喜欢一些东西。
8. Challenge your “what if” thoughts:
改变那些“假使……”的想法:
When faced with too much fear about a situation, imagine the worst case scenario and visualize a solution for it, then let go of fear. This way, you will be prepared for anything and your fear would not block you from being open and creative to different solutions. For example, if you are constantly worried about losing your job up to a point where it is creating a lot of anxiety and fear and is effecting your performance and your happiness negatively, then think of losing your job, visualize how you will handle it, find solutions in your mind and then let go of the thought and the fear attached to it.
遇到太多的恐慌,想想最糟糕的的情况吧,设想一下那样的场景,然后把恐惧丢到脑后。这样你就算是做足了准备,恐惧感也不会再阻碍到你对于不同情景的创造力。例如,如果你总是担心失业,十分的焦虑和害怕,甚至影响到了你的表现和幸福,那么就想想如果你真的失业了,你会如何处理,自己想一想解决方案,然后就果断抛弃这些消极的想法和恐惧吧。
At the end, positive thinkers are better problem solvers and have better interactions. In addition to that, people who are positive thinkers are happier and more satisfied with their life.
最后,积极思考者都更善于解决问题,更好的与人交际。除此之外,那些积极思考者会更开心更知足。
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