4. I-cannot-imagine-life-without-him: This is the point in love when you begin to think about the future – your future with the one you love. When you cannot imagine your life without her, you are in love!

没有他，我将何去何从：展望未来，恋人们通常会想到这一点—和你所爱的人厮守终身，你无法想象没有他的日子。

5. Oneness of your relationship: You begin to realize that you truly want this other person in your life. In our book, we refer to the notion of “turning two into one.” Everything changes from you and me, to WE!

行动一致：你开始意识到你真的希望和他在一起，用书中的一句话，用书中的一句话就是 “合二为一“。从你，变成了我们。

6. Pre-occupied love: Simply stated, you think about the one you love most of the time. You can’t get them out of your mind. You are in love with them!

钟爱：简单的说就是你无时无刻不在思念着你最爱的人，一旦你爱上了一个人，你就无法忘掉他。

7. Love itself and your ability to express that love: You finally have the courage to tell them you love them! You suddenly and out of nowhere are inspired to say I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! You shout it to the stars. You are in love!

让爱和行动诠释爱：当你终于鼓起勇气向她表白，你会情不自禁的喊出，我爱你，我爱你，我爱你，你就真的步入爱河了。