You Accept Faults and don't Criticize
你可以接受他的不完美，不会因此抱怨

Loving is accepting other people and loving them for who they are. If you are on the process of looking for potential partners and are participating in arranged dates but you always find yourself criticizing the person before he or she can show you who they are, then you are not ready to love yet. If you find yourself comparing your date with your ex then you have not yet moved on. Therefore do not declare the "I am ready to love" statement to the world. It is because it is clear that you are not ready to love yet.

爱是接受一个人，你爱他是因为他就是他。如果你正在寻找可以约会的对象，参加了相亲，但还没等到了解他这个人就开始对他指手画脚，那么你就还没有准备好。如果你总是那他和旧爱相比，那么你还没有准备好。所以，就不要对世界宣布“我准备好了！”，因为很明显，你还没有准备好。