Cut Ties To Your Ex

断绝与前女友的联系

Although this dating rule may be contentious for some readers, it is still an important step in the dating process. Just like a spring cleaning clears your space of clutter and cobwebs, removing an ex still present in your life after a breakup can free you to meet someone new. Of course there are circumstances where this may not be possible - such as if you have children together or work in the same office. But whenever possible, you need to remove your ex from your personal life, even if it is only temporary.

也许有些读者对这个建议有争议，但是这在约会中仍然是很重要的事情。就好像给你关系网中错综复杂的关系来个大扫除一样，与前任断绝关系的话可以给你重新开始的机会。当然了，也有些情况是不能这样做的，比如你们共同抚养小孩，或者在同一个办公室工作。但是只要有可能的话，你都要让前任从你的私生活中消失，哪怕是暂时性这样做也可以。