Review Your Relationship Expectations
重新审视你对这段关系的期待
If you shake your head within seconds of meeting someone, rank them against a checklist in your head, or have stringent guidelines about who you will and won't meet, it is time to revamp your relationship expectations. When trying to meet someone new, it is imperative that you let go of your preconceived notions about who the perfect partner is.
如果你因为想到要和某人约会而摇头的话,将他们列入黑名单,或者如果对你想和谁不和谁约会有严格的标准划分的话,你就要开始重新修订你对约会的期望了。当你尝试去认识新朋友的时候,当务之急是你要抛开谁是你的最佳朋友的偏见。