导读:从“被动婚姻”到“自由恋爱”, 从“速配爱情”再到“丁克”家庭,从“剩女(3S lady)”流行到“我的生活我主宰”……每个年代的婚恋都打上了各自的时代烙印。 新中国成立60年来历经风雨,中国人的婚恋观也发生了翻天覆地的变化。
Attitudes to love and marriage continue to change since the first Marriage Law was introduced in 1950, and have to play catch-up with people's evolving love lives since then.
自1950年中国第一部《婚姻法》颁布之后,人们的婚恋观念一直在转变着;该法自诞生之日起就一直伴随恋人们的脚步,与时俱进着。
Wu Bo, the 55-year-old mother of a 23-year-old unwed son, was taken aback when Ma Nuo, 22, a model from Beijing said on China's most popular TV reality program Don't Bother Me: "I'd rather weep in a BMW than smile on the bicycle of my true love."
22岁的北京模特马诺在热门电视真人秀《非诚勿扰》中说:“我宁愿坐在宝马里哭,也不愿坐在爱人的自行车后座上笑。”这番言论着实使现年55岁的吴波(音译)大吃一惊。她的儿子今年23岁,目前还是单身。
"I don't like to generalize, but Ma's words show that young women today worship money. They won't get married unless their boyfriends have a house and a car. They're so mercenary," Wu says.
吴波说:“尽管我本人不喜欢以偏概全,但是马诺的这番话将当下年轻女性的拜金心理显露无疑。她们是如此的金钱至上——除非男朋友有车有房,否则不会结婚。”