3. Not Leading, Or - Worse - Trying To Get Her To Lead
不去主导,甚或更糟——让她去主导
When you plan to take her out to dinner, but keep asking her whether the time and place is okay for her, then you're giving her the impression that you don't know how to handle a relationship. Women find it wussy, and it annoys the heck out of them.
当你计划带她出去吃晚饭时,却一个劲儿地问她所定的时间和地点对她是否合适,于是你就给她留下了这样一个印象:你不知道如何去处理好一段关系。女人觉得这是懦弱无能的表现,她们非常讨厌这一点。