Step 1: Get Some Skills
Take something you like and get really good at it. Video games don't count. They isolate you. Write, surf, snowboard, anything. Being good at something makes you interesting - it gives you something to talk about and builds your confidence.
1.学点特长
学些自己喜欢的东西,并真正地把它变成自己的专长。电子游戏不算在内,因为它只能让你与世隔绝。写作,冲浪,滑雪,什么都好。身怀一技之长能给你更多的谈资,帮你树立自信,也更能引起他人对你的兴趣。
Following the fads is a dead end. Choose your own adventure and stick with it.
追逐时尚是没前途的。选择属于自己的路线,坚持走下去。