男人说:It's not a big deal. 没什么大不了的。
女人的理解:How trivial. (他认为)这是小事!
男人本意:Let's not dwell on it. 我们不要老想它了。
Men come from the school of suck-it-up, while women tend to need more reassurance if something is bothering them.
男人们习惯于默默承受,而女人如果碰到什么事烦扰她们,往往需要更多安慰。