6. Realize you can’t control or change others.

One of the most common frustrations comes when people try to control other people, or force them to change. It’s a recipe for disaster. You can try to control others, but there will always be a struggle, and you’ll always fail to some degree. This applies to your significant other, even to kids. We try to control them but we can’t, not really. Instead, try to influence others, encourage them, support them, help them find happiness. And let go of the need to control. It’s difficult but really essential here. Once you can release that need to control, you’ll find much more happiness.
6.认清你不能控制或者改变他人。

当人们试着去控制他人或者是强迫他人改变时，最常见的挫折之一也随着而来。你可以试着去控制他人，但是通常会很纠结，在某种程度上，总是会失败。这些适用于你重要的人，甚至是孩子。我们试着去控制别人，但是事实上，去会失败。然而，试着去影响他们，鼓励他们，支持他们或是帮助他们找到幸福。然后有必要地放开控制。虽然很难，但是十分必要。一旦你对这些控制放手，你将会找到更多的幸福。