3. Ask for help.

One of the first things I did with Eva was ask for her support. Not just her consent, but her physical help. I confessed that I can’t do it on my own and I need her. Many people, if they truly care about you, want to help you. They want you to be happy, and if you tell them how they can help you succeed, they’ll do their best. If possible, make simplifying a team effort — not just something you’re doing, but something you’re all doing together. And make it fun!
3.寻求帮助.

我与女儿Eva相处，首要的是寻求她的支持。不仅仅是她口头上的赞同，而是她实际的帮助。我承认我不能独立完成一些事，所以我需要她的帮助。很多人，如果他们真的关心你，这些人都是想帮助你的。他们想要快乐，如果你告知他们什么方法能够助你成功的话，他们将会全力以赴。如果可能，使团队的付出更加简单，不仅仅是你正在做的一些事情，而是所有的事大家一起做。让它变得有趣些。