1. Discipline them:
Of course disciplining our children is a given in any home. But we need to ask ourselves if we are disciplining our children properly? Who rules the perch in your home? How often do your children tell you what THEY are going to do?
Did you know children want discipline and structure in their life? When we take the time to discipline our children, and on a consistent basis, we are actually helping them to develop their character? Correct discipline is a necessary part of the growth process and we shouldn't hold back on fulfilling our responsibilities as parents. The less we spend disciplining and counseling our children the less they will feel loved by us.
1.教导他们:
当然了,教导孩子在任何家庭中都是家常便饭了。但是,我们得问问自己,是否用对了方式来教导我们的孩子?在你家里是谁说了算?你的孩子多久告诉你一次他们要去做什么?
你知道孩子们在他们的一生中需要教导和约束吗?我们花时间来教导我们的孩子,以一种始终如一的做人原则,实际上是在帮他们塑造他们的性格?正确的教导是他们成长过程中必需的一部分,我们不应该推卸作为家长应履行的责任。我们越少的教导和关心我们的孩子,他们越觉得我们不够爱他们。