He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.
让你的生活丰富多彩
在一段错误的恋爱关系中,你的另一半会让你变得情绪化,让你心情低落,而且一般都会让你有无力感。而在一段好的恋爱关系中,他会让你的生活更丰富多彩,激发出最好的你,带给你希望和平和的心态。假若他能在精神上、专业上、个人生活中都能给与你支持,那么他就是在让你的生活变得更丰富。而他会这么做的时候,他就是你的对的人。
如果你的下任不具备这样的特征,那么你可以抽身出来,整整身上的灰尘,在有个清晰的概念的前提下,重新找一个值得约会的对象来约会。记住,寻找一生的伴侣决不是一件容易的事情,但要记得,要忠于自己,心行一致,那么你就会极大减少在不对的人身上浪费的时间,最终找到你的对的人。