We can easily stumble through life without considering how our lack of manners and sloppiness affect others. To be elegant is not to be snobbish, but rather to be polished, charitable and discreet. Making the effort to be elegant means caring about how our manners and appearance affect others.
或许,我们在生活中常常会某些女性看见有这样的现象,也许她的行为并不会影响到任何人,但是让人见了却是十分不舒服的。女人的优雅并不这么简单,有些优雅,却是需要你关注细节的:
Step 1 Practice the art of conversation. Create a list of intriguing topics that you'd feel comfortable talking about with others. Even if you know little about a subject, you can pose questions for others to respond to.
无论坐在哪里,都希望你不要盘腿大坐或者翘起“二郎腿”,请保持坐姿尽量优雅但又不会露点。