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甩掉迷茫
Stop feeling like you should have all the answers
不要再觉得你应该无所不知
Uncertainty is the way things are, and trying to fight is like trying to fight an angry bear with a wet fish. It'll just leaveyou exhausted, scared and broken. So relax a little. Understand that uncertainty is natural, and know that doing your best is plenty good enough asa response.
事情就是不确定的,企图斗争好比和一头怒熊抗衡、争夺鲜鱼。你只会精疲力竭、担惊受怕、身心俱碎。放松一点,明白世事无常乃常态。要知道,尽最大努力这种做法本身就是不错的回应。
Prioritise play over success
两相权衡,游戏比成功重要
Extrinsic success is easy, cheap even. So it's through play—through engaging with the things that make you feel joy orconnected and experience more success than fitting in with expectations willever give you.
外在的成功来得容易、甚至可以说来得廉价。所以说,是通过游戏竞争、去参与你觉得开心和能带动你的事情, 去体验更多的成功,而不是去迎合外界带给你的期冀。
Stop comparing
停止抱怨
Today, every time you compare yourself to someoneelse, you threaten to undermine your self and your efficacy, or inflate yourego. Comparison is irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is your abilityto approach a decision.
如今,每次你与他人相较,你就有贬低自己、削弱自己效益的风险,甚至有自我膨胀的危险。比较无甚相关,唯一相关的是你做决策的能力。
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