重点讲解：
1. come to terms with
勉强接受；向…让步；对…妥协；
eg. She had come to terms with the fact that her husband would always be crippled.
她只好接受了丈夫将终生残疾这个现实。
eg. He can come to terms with being poor.
他能够忍受贫穷。
2. let go of
放弃，舍弃（感情、态度、控制权）；
eg. Out on the course you must discipline yourself to let go of detailed theory.
在高尔夫球场上，你必须训练自己做到不拘泥于细枝末节的理论。
eg. Open your alms to change, but don't let go of your values.
勇于改变。但切不可放弃你的价值观。
3. go through
经历，经受（尤指苦难或艰难时期）；
eg. I'm trying to be more centred, and not fall apart when I go through difficult things.
在我经历艰难困苦之时，我努力让自己保持镇定自若，不要崩溃。
eg. eople forget that we had to go through a very difficult period with transfers.
也许大家都忘记了我们必须经历的那个艰难的转变期。
4. aspire to sth.
向往；渴望；有志于；
eg. They aspired to be gentlemen, though they fell far short of the ideal.
他们想要成为君子，虽然离这个理想还差得很远。
eg. You should always aspire to becoming the best.
你应该经常追求成为自己领域里的佼佼者。