1. get out of 逃避；避免

eg. What can you get out of him?
那你能从他那得到什么吗？

eg. What do I get out of this relationship?
我能从这次感情关系中得到什么？

eg. Hopefully, this article will help you avoid some of the pitfalls or get out of them when you fall in.
我希望这篇文章能够帮助您避免一些这样的陷阱，或者在落入这样的圈套后帮助您解决麻烦。

2. come across v. 偶遇；无意中发现；讲得清楚明白；给人……印象

eg. When you come across something importantk,write it down.
当你遇到重要的事情时,把它记下来.

eg. For every should you come across, look for the preference underneath.
你每遇到一个应该，要寻找隐藏其下的喜好。

eg. Or they'll come across it later and smile, further cementing their appreciate for your work.
或者他们会无意中发现它并微笑，然后进一步巩固对你的工作的欣赏。