今日格言:
"The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others." - Albert Schweitzer 人生的目的是服务,表现慈悲和帮助他人的意愿。
Day 17 问题挑战:
What injustices make you angry? How can you improve them?
什么不公正的事情让你感到愤怒?你如何可以改善它们?
Because of my easy-going nature, there aren't many things that truly make me angry. However, I have felt upset in the past with situations where people were treated differently based on their level of willingness to pay for services.. Yet, I must acknowledge that I have also exhibited similar behavior in my own life. For instance, I tend to be more friendly towards my students. I would feel impatient if it's not my students who are taking up my time. This is an area I need to improve upon. Therefore, it's those who are unwilling to contribute but still demand others' time that can make me feel angry. To improve the situation, I could establish clear boundaries and communicate effectively. For instance, I could politely explain to non-students that my time is dedicated to students during certain hours. Additionally, I could schedule my day to allocate specific time slots for student interactions and personal activities. This way, I can ensure that my time is utilized effectively.
因为我性情温和,所以好像没有什么事情能让我真正感到愤怒。不过,过去我曾对以愿意支付服务的高低程度作为分类依据,而给予不同待遇感到不满。然而,我也必须承认,在我自己的生活中,我有时也会表现出类似的行为,例如,我会对我的学生更亲切一些。同样地,当有人一上来就要分享很多事情时,我也会感到有些不耐烦。这是我需要改进的地方。因此,可以说是那些不愿意付出但却占用他人时间的人会让我感到愤怒。为了改善情况,我可以建立明确的界限并有效地进行沟通。例如,我可以礼貌地向非学生解释,在特定的时间段内,我的时间是专门给学生的。此外,我可以安排我的日程表,为与学生互动和进行个人活动分配特定的时间段。这样,我可以确保我的时间被有效地利用。
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