push around 驱使(某人)
A. Kyle, do you think you can rewrite this paper. I don't really like the topic.
A: Kyle, 你想你是不是可以把这个报告重写一遍.我并不是很喜欢那个主题.
B: Hey, I'm only trying to help you out. You shouldn't be pushing me around like this.
B: 嘿! 我是在帮你忙! 你不应该这样指使我!
'把一个人推来推去'应该和'指使'很容易联想得到吧!