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6. Admit your mistakes. This is extremely effective and disarming. When I got my first job, my father told me, "If you take the blame, you'll get the responsibility." I've found that to be very true. Difficult, but true. Admitting mistakes is the first step, then…
承认自己的错误。 这是极为有效、消解的方法。当我获得第一份工作时，我的父亲曾告诉我：“如果你承担了责备，你将会获得责任” 我发现这一点很正确。难但是却正确。承认错误是第一步，接下来...
7. Explain what you've learned. If you can show a critic that you've learned something, you prove that you've understood the criticism and tried to act on it. That, itself, usually mollifies critics.
解释你已经学到了什么。如果你能向一位批评者展示你学到了某样东西，那么你在证明自己已经理解了批评，并且试图采取行动。这本身就能让批评者安静下来。
8. Enjoy the fun of failure. Re-frame the issue entirely to embrace criticism. Fact is, trying new things and aiming high opens you to criticism. I tell myself to Enjoy the fun of failure to try to re-frame failure and criticism as part of the fun. Otherwise, my dread of criticism can paralyze me.
What am I overlooking? Have you found any other strategies that work for you?
享受失败的乐趣。 重新转化这个事情，拥抱批评。事实上，尝试新事物、眼光高都会让你更容易被批评。在《享受失败的乐趣》一文中我告诉自己重建失败、批评，将它们作为乐趣的一部分。不然的话，我对批评的恐惧将让我行为瘫痪。
我漏掉了什么没有?你有没有发现其它有用的方法?
