We all would like to be trusted by our parents,
我们都希望得到父母的信任,
because each of us wants to get more freedom.
因为我们每个人都想获得更多的自由。
But parents are more likely to give us freedom if we show them that they can trust us.
但如果我们向父母表明他们可以信任我们,那么他们就更有可能给我们自由。
So let our parents know
所以让父母知道
what's going on at school and with our friends.
我们在学校发生了什么,并了解我们的朋友
Keep our bedroom door open when we are at home.
在家的时候,开着卧室门。
If we can be truly trusted,
如果我们能得到真正的信任,
then we have nothing to hide, right?
那我们就没什么好隐瞒的了,对吧?
Most parents will trust us more for coming to them and telling them about ourselves.
大多数父母会因我们去找他们讲自己的事而更加信任我们。
Trust can't be built in a day or even a week,
信任不是一天或一周就能建立起来的,
but we can gradually do things to help our parents build their trust in us.
但是我们可以逐渐做一些事情来帮助父母建立他们对我们的信任。