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Although a winner can freely enjoy himself, he can also postpone enjoyment. He can discipline himself in the present to enhance his enjoyment in the future. He is not afraid to go after what he wants but does so in appropriate ways. He does not get his security by controlling others.
虽然胜者可以自由地享受欢乐，但他也能把享受推迟到以后。他能够在现在克制住自己以增加将来的欢乐。他不怕去追求他想要的东西，但追求的方式是正当的。他并不通过控制他人来获取自己的安全感。
A winner cares about the world and its peoples. He is not isolated from the general problems of society. He is concerned, compassionate and committed to improving the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international adversity, he does not see himself as totally powerless. He does what he can to make the world a better place.
胜者关心世界，关心各国人民。他并不游离于社会的普遍问题之外。他忧国忧民，富有同情心，献身于生活质量的改进。即使面对着民族的和世界性的灾难，他也不会认为自己完全无能为力。他竭尽全力以使世界更加美好。
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Although people are born to win, they are also born helpless and totally dependent on their environment. Winners successfully make the transition from total helplessness to independence, and then to interdependence. Losers do not. Somewhere along the line they begin to avoid becoming self-responsible.
虽然人们生来应成为胜者，但他们也生来不能自立，完全依赖于自己的环境。胜者成功地完成了从完全依赖到自立、再到相互依存的过渡。而败者却没有完成这一过渡。他们往往半途而废，逃避为自己负责。
As we have noted, few people are total winners or losers. Most of them are winners in some areas of their lives and losers in others. Their winning or losing is influenced by what happens to them in childhood.
正如我们已经指出的，很少人是完全的胜者或完全的败者。大多数人在其生活的某些方面是胜者，而在其他方面却是败者。他们的胜或败受到儿童时代所遭遇的事情的影响。
