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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
adv. 乐意地，心甘情愿地
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- Or in a grand…You know, in a large schema of things, does it really matter?
- 或者更久…… 从长远来看 它真的很重要吗
- Is it worth my worrying, and fretting, and being depressed and upset and anxious about this now?
- 它真的值得我去担心、焦虑、为之沮丧、为之焦躁吗
- Is this really going to matter in a year? And most of the times, it won't matter.
- 它在一年之后真的会有影响吗 通常情况下都不会
- The other side of this is that well, then does anything matter?
- 从另一方面说 有什么是真的重要的吗
- A few years ago, I was asked a very simple question by a friend.
- 几年前 有个朋友问了我一个非常简单的问题
- And he said, "you know, just…" You know we haven't talked about before-this was a close friend.
- 他说 我们之前从来没聊过这个的 他是我很好的朋友
- But…"Can you tell me what psychological maturity is?
- 但也没聊过 “你能告诉我心理成熟是什么吗
- From your research, can you think about what psychological maturity is?"
- 通过你的研究 你能想明白心理成熟到底是什么吗？”
- And off-the-cuff, at that moment-over time I revise the definition a little bit-
- 就在这一霎那 就在当时 后来我又对这个定义做了些修饰
- I said the following: Psychological maturity is about the ability to willingly shift perspective.
- 我当时这么说 心理成熟就是根据自己的意愿转换角度的能力
- And I think it's more or less right. Again, looking at the research about this ability to shift perspective.
- 我觉得这差不多是对的 基于这些关于转换角度的能力的研究
- Why? Or what is this ability to shift perspective?
- 为什么 这种转换角度的能力是什么
- It's the ability when we want to be immersed in the here and now, in the present.
- 这就是我们希望沉浸在当下的一种能力
- And it's the ability to, when we want, take a step back, zoom out both in time and in space,
- 也正是我们退一步 时间和空间上都退一步
- and ask the question, "is this really going to matter? Or in a year?
- 问这样的问题 “它真的有影响吗 一年之后呢
- Or in a grand schema of things, space? Is this really important?"
- 或者更长远来看呢 它真的很重要吗”
- And at the same time, go back almost at will. Have this flexibility to go back
- 同时随心所欲地回来 能够灵活地将思绪拉回来
- and be immersed when listening to a beautiful piece of music, or spending time with people we love.
- 沉浸于聆听一首美妙的歌 或者和我们所爱的人一起
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| 重点单词 | 查看全部解释 | |||
| willingly | ['wiliŋli] | 联想记忆 | ||
| perspective | [pə'spektiv] | 联想记忆 | ||
| upset | [ʌp'set] | 联想记忆 | ||
| depressed | [di'prest] | 联想记忆 | ||
| psychological | [.saikə'lɔdʒikəl] | |||
| definition | [.defi'niʃən] | 联想记忆 | ||
| shift | [ʃift] | |||
| haven | ['heivn] | 联想记忆 | ||
| maturity | [mə'tjuəriti] | |||
| flexibility | [.fleksə'biliti] | 联想记忆 |
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