评论
打印
课程简介：
我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
adj. 反对的，敌对的 v. 和 ... 起冲突，反抗
您现在的位置： 首页 > 英语听力 > 公开课 > 哈佛大学《幸福课》 > 正文
- But they enjoyed the process and they worked harder. Look at this slight manipulation.
- 但是他们享受这个过程 并且更加努力 看看这微小的操纵带来的结果
- Simply one sentence-"oh you are so smart!" Oh you are working so hard!
- 简简单单的一个句子“你真聪明” 你真努力
- One sentence lead to this significant difference.
- 一句话带来了这么明显的不同
- In her words-"Emphasizing effort gives a child a variable that they can control.
- 用她的话来说 “重视努力让孩子拥有一个他自己能掌控的变量
- They come to see themselves as in control of their success.
- 这能让他们认为自己能掌控自己的成功
- Emphasizing natural intelligence takes it out of the child's control,
- 强调自然的天赋让孩子们无法掌控成功
- and it provides no good recipe for responding to a failure."
- 这不会给孩子提供面对失败的方法。”
- Essentially what happens when you focus only on the intelligence,
- 事实上当你仅仅注重于天赋的时候
- on how smart you are, you are creating the perfectionist schema,
- 你就是在制造完美主义的基模
- as opposed to a schema that focuses on the journey, effort, hard work.
- 而不是专注于旅途当中努力的基模
- She continues-"When you praise kids' in telligence and then they fail,
- 她继续说道“如果你称赞孩子的智力 当他们失败时
- they think they're not smart anymore, and they lose interest in their work.
- 他们会认为自己不再聪明 然后失去对于眼前工作的兴趣
- In contrast, kids praised for effort show no impairment and often are energized in the face of difficulty."
- 相反 那些被称赞努力的孩子 在困难面前不会气馁 甚至更有动力。”
- What a difference just based on these two approaches.
- 这两种方式造成了多么明显的不同
- Person who is praised for their intelligence creates this schema-either I'm intelligent or I'm not.
- 被称赞智力的人会产生这样的基模：要么我很聪明 要么我就不聪明
- And I'm afraid of not being intelligent, so I'll choose the easier task.
- 我很畏惧不聪明 所以我就选择容易一点的任务吧
- And when I can't do something, it's an attack, it's an insult on my schema, right?
- 当我无法做到的时候 这就是攻击 是对于我的基模的侮辱 没错吧？
- It's a deviation from this straight narrow.
- 这是对于直线的偏离
- In contrast, if effort is most important, OK, let me see what's around the corner here.
- 相对的 如果努力才是最重要的 那么好的 就让我试试看吧
扫描二维码进行跟读打分训练
| 重点单词 | 查看全部解释 | |||
| opposed | [ə'pəuzd] | |||
| perfectionist | [pə'fekʃənist] | 联想记忆 | ||
| smart | [smɑ:t] | |||
| intelligent | [in'telidʒənt] | |||
| contrast | ['kɔntræst,kən'træst] | |||
| impairment | ||||
| control | [kən'trəul] | |||
| slight | [slait] | |||
| manipulation | [mə.nipju'leiʃən] | |||
| insult | ['insʌlt] |
- 阅读本文的人还阅读了：
可可英语官方微信(微信号:ikekenet)
每天向大家推送短小精悍的英语学习资料.
添加方式1.扫描上方可可官方微信二维码。
添加方式2.搜索微信号ikekenet添加即可。
添加方式1.扫描上方可可官方微信二维码。
添加方式2.搜索微信号ikekenet添加即可。
