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My teacher Ohad Kamin, when I graduated from college, and I was debating- I didn't know which direction to go, said to me the following- he said: "here is the advice from a 50 year old. " - He was 50 at the time.
我的老师欧哈德·卡明在我大学毕业时，我不知道何去何从，而我的老师给我说了这话：“这是一个50岁的人给你的建议”他当时50岁
He said, "Identify the things that you can do. And then out of those, identify the things that you want to do. And list them down. Make a list- long or short, whatever it is. Now out of the things you want to do, identify those things that you really want to do. And then look at them, and out of those things, identify those that you really really want to do and then do them."
他说“找出你能做的事，然后再从中找出你想做的事，把它们一一写下来，写张清单，长短都无所谓。接着从你想做的事中找出你最想做的事，看着这些，从中找出你最最想做的事，然后就做那些事”
One of the best advices that I got. Very simple. But so important. Again it's to take time aside and to think about those things.
那是我得到过的最好的建议。非常简单，但非常重要。这需要花点时间，认真想想这些事
So what are my self-concordant goals? What is the interest of me? What is valuable to me? What am I passionate about? What do I want to rather than feel that I have to do?
那我的自我和谐目标是什么呢？我的兴趣是什么？什么对我最具价值？我对什么有激情？我想做什么，而不是我得做什么
And sometimes the answers are not easy answers. Sometimes the answers are not answers that I want to hear. And the implications, the ? that are following that path may not be as pleasant initially, because it made me going against the grain.
有时答案并不简单，有时答案并不中听。而其中的含义…接下来的路可能没有最初的好走，因为它越来越崎岖不平
It made me doing something that yields difficulties from other people or from the environment. It may not be the most popular choice.
它让我去做一些困难的事情、别人或环境所造成的困难，可能不是最受欢迎的选择
