But as we talked about... And as we'll talk about in a few minutes, it doesn't matter that much.
但就像我们谈到的那样……我们接下来会谈到,这也没太大关系
Because even if we don't success we just bounce back up.
因为即使没有成功,我们能很快恢复动力
And continue working hard.
继续努力工作
The key though is as much as possible, to attain this balance.
而关键就是尽可能地保持平衡
What Maslow calls The Graceful Integration between high level of beliefs and connection to reality.
这就是马斯洛所说的高水平信念和与现实联系间的完美整合
No prescription here.
这个不是答案
But just a heuristic, something to keep in mind.
只是一个启发,让你们记在脑子里
Positive thinking is not THE secret.
积极的思考不是秘密本身
Yes, it's part of the secret.
是的,它是这个秘密的一部分
Yes, it's part of the success formula. It's part of the happiness formula. But it's not all.
是的,它是成功公式的一部分,它是幸福公式的一部分,但并非全部
False optimism sooner or later means disillusionment, anger and hopelessness.
错误的乐观主义迟早意味着幻灭,愤怒和无望
Here is the secret of success. This is the secret proven by research.
成功的秘密是,这是一个经研究证实的秘密
Thousand of years of research and successful people in different cultures, in different places and in different ages.
多年对不同文化,不同地方,不同年龄的成功人士的研究
It's optimism, passion and hard work.
这个秘密是乐观,热情和勤奋
It'll be very hard for you to find successful men and women through out history who did not have all three.
纵观历史,你很难找到哪个成功人士是不具备这三个品质的
Optimism, belief, faith that they can do well, that they can succeed.
乐观,信念,坚信他们能做好,坚信他们能成功