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In section next week when they start to meet is "how can you make this an excellent section?" "What can you do?"
首先要问的问题之一就是 "你如何让它成为一个优秀的小组?" "你能做什么? 你能有什么贡献?"
"what can you bring? What strength can you bring into the section so that it's an excellent section?" As opposed to blaming, other students, TF, Bush, Clinton, whoever.
"你能给小组带来什么优势" "让它成为一个优秀的小组?" 而不是抱怨其他学生 组长 布什 克林顿
Taking responsibility for it. There is a wonderful story about responsibility in the book by Nathaniel Branden.
你要为它承担责任 关于责任 有一个很好的故事 Nathaniel Branden的书里提到了
We are going to read some stuff by Nathaniel Branden when we talk about self-esteem. Nathaniel Branden talks about six pillars.
当我们谈到自尊时 我们要读点Nathaniel Branden的东西 Nathaniel Branden谈到了六根支柱
Six important pillars in self-esteem. One of those pillars is self-responsibility. People who have high self-esteem take responsibility.
自尊的六根重要支柱 其中一根就是自我负责 自尊心强的人会承担责任
People who want to cultivate high self-esteem and create confidence, take responsibility for their lives and so on.
想培养高自尊心 培养自信的人会承担责任 承担生活的责任等等
So in his workshop, one of the main things that he says there in his book is that understanding that you have to take responsibility for your life is recognizing understanding.
在他的研讨会上 他在书中说到的 主要一件事就是 明白你必须 为生活承担责任就是理解
That no one is coming. No one is coming to the knight in shining armor who will take you to the happily-ever-after land.
没人会来 没人会来. 穿着闪亮铠甲的骑士 不会来带你到幸福乐园
