One question Yes On having a conversation
我有一个问题请讲关于谈话方面
I know it would just normal interpersonal interactional, clarifying questions active listening, that's a big deal
我知道它们仅仅是常规的人际交流相互交流,阐述问题主动倾听,这很重要
Oh yeah Do you want to, either's want to poison an interview do you want to reset, retrace question
没错需不需要在你回答问题之前为了不破坏谈话
and see if you understand it right before you answered it or you just plugging
而复述问题吗以确认你是否理解了问题或者是你直接回答
If you are confused, I would only ask them for a couple reasons
如果你有疑问,我将只会因以下几个原因而重新问他们
one, if they are really unclear and you actually need it or, if it's a doll good question you are trying to think of the answer
第一,问题确实不清楚而你需要弄明白问题是什么或者这个问题相当好你需要时间来想想答案
So if they ask you something like What was the your most memorable moments in your college?
所以如果他们问你大学期间最难忘的时刻是
And you are like Crap, I don't think that ever and you say well you can rephrase that, wow, it's really good question
而你呢噢,我从未想过这个所以你可以说你可以复述说,噢 这是个精彩的问题
so, the most memorable moment in my college You give you a little bite a little bit time to think
在我大学期间最难忘的瞬间是...... 你为自己争取了一点点思考的时间
so use the bite time or if they were just really unclear
所以要么是为了争取思考的时间要么是问题确实不清楚
That would probably happen while from hiring managers depending with the (INAUDIBLE)
在面对招聘经理的时候可能会出现这种问题取决于(听不清)
That recruiters are usually trained and they are hired to be the personals You may have a hired manager who is not as inter-personal
招聘专员通常是经过训练的专门从事与人交流的活动而招聘经理则可能不是
so feel free use that only if you only could you do, by sometime good question though, Gab
那么善于人际交流所以在必要的时候还是应该大胆地这么做这个问题不错,盖博
You shooting gun at me today all you guys are
你今天向我提了不少问题大家都是
So we are gonna close that soon it's 8 o clock right now
那么我们就准备结束了时间过得很快,现在已经8点了
last thing I'll say close strongly, make sure leave all your cards on the table at the end of the people would say is there anything else we should know?
我要讲的最后一点是要有力地收尾,确认你的卡片全部放在桌上最后人们会问还有什么我们应该知道的东西吗
And make that your opportunity to say well, based on what I've learnt so far and this this and this
你应该抓住机会说根据我目前所知的情况这个这个和这个
I think it would be great position let them know you love this job just like a spouse speak to different other they want hear I love you
我想这个职位对我来说是很好的让他们知道你热爱这个工作就像一对夫妇互相说的那样他们想听到的是,我爱你