女人希望男人真诚。不要讲你是怎么对待前女友的,她不会因此觉得你明智、忠诚、可靠。这并不是要对她撒谎,别说谎,别这么对待你的女人。一旦撒谎,她不会觉得你比前男友好,这就好像,你也希望自己是她爱过的唯一男人。真诚也是女人想要的。
One reason why understanding a woman isn’t such an easy thing is because the way women process thoughts and emotions is drastically different than their male counterparts. Studies indicate women use emotion to processes thought as their bases for decision-making thirty percent more than men do. Add such, women are also known for being more intuitive than men. This is not exactly true as men use intuition in different ways and have different ways of communicating. Nevertheless, Men tend to bond to share activities, whereas women tend to bond to share thoughts and feelings.
So what do a woman really want to the man? Men can get what they want from women much more frequently when they approach the women with a few simple yet affective.
1. woman wants a man to be confident. Confidence is the No. 1 quality a woman look for. Don’t be windy. Don’t apologize for everything. Be real. be you.
2. woman goes nuts over a man who will go the extra mile. For example, he opens a door for her; he walks in the right side of the street and helps her to stop. I am talking about being a gentleman. If she is cold, offer her your jacket. If she is in trouble, protect her. If there is a danger, pull your arm around her. Be a real man.
3. A sense of humor. Woman loves a man who can make her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you are half way home. Take a chance, be real but be funny.
4. Woman wants a man to listen and not necessarily give advice. Woman generally likes to complain about the problems. You need to understand that a woman needs to vent. Allow her this and she’ll allow you in, not say aha while she is talking. Be true to interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you are going to say next. Watch what happens.
5. Women want to be treated as they are the sexiest women on the planet, and that no other woman can compare. Talking about your ex-girlfriends is not going to score big points with your new woman, treating her like she is the only one will make her smile for quite a while.
6. Woman wants to know you will be faithful. Don’t tell a woman how you treated on your ex, it wouldn’t make her think you are wise, loyalty or trustfully. I’m not saying to lie to her, just don’t go there, don’t treat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this, just like you want to think you are the only man she has ever loved one. That’s the thing she wants, too.